How Desire Becomes Conditional
Desire doesn’t disappear all at once. It narrows—becoming careful, watchful, and conditional. This piece explores what actually happens when sex stops feeling free, and how safety—not effort—is what brings desire back.
When One Wants Sex and the Other Doesn’t
It can feel like the quietest kind of distance — not a fight, not a rupture, just two bodies missing each other’s timing. Here’s what’s really happening underneath.