Why We Yell at the People We Love Most
Every couple misreads each other sometimes. The problem isn’t conflict — it’s what happens when fear replaces connection. This is why we yell at the people we love most — and how repair brings us back.
Why Repair Fails (Even When Both Partners Are Trying)
Repair doesn’t fail because couples don’t try hard enough. It fails when safety is missing. Here’s what most people misunderstand—and what actually helps repair land.
When Love Survives the Silence
A reflection on grief, distance, and the quiet truth that love doesn’t disappear just because it becomes quieter.
Why Fighting Feels Safer Than Repair
Why fighting can feel safer than repair—and how fear of vulnerability, not poor communication, keeps couples stuck in painful cycles.
How Desire Becomes Conditional
Desire doesn’t disappear all at once. It narrows—becoming careful, watchful, and conditional. This piece explores what actually happens when sex stops feeling free, and how safety—not effort—is what brings desire back.