Why Being Right Is So Expensive in a Relationship
When every disagreement becomes a case to win, you stop relating and start defending. Curiosity can help couples move beyond the need to be right.
We Don’t See the Wound, We See the Scar.
Some people reveal their inner world quickly.
Others let you only as far as the courtyard protecting it.
Is It Really This Way—Does Therapy Get Worse Before It Gets Better?
It’s a question many couples ask when therapy starts to feel harder instead of better: Is this normal—or is something going wrong?
He Was 19 Minutes Late— And What I Almost Missed
Sometimes the most important moment in couples therapy
is the one that doesn’t look important at all.
What I Listen For When Couples Talk
Couples often think the problem is what they’re arguing about.
But beneath the words, something else is happening—something that often goes unheard.