Why Fighting Feels Safer Than Repair
Why fighting can feel safer than repair—and how fear of vulnerability, not poor communication, keeps couples stuck in painful cycles.
How Desire Becomes Conditional
Desire doesn’t disappear all at once. It narrows—becoming careful, watchful, and conditional. This piece explores what actually happens when sex stops feeling free, and how safety—not effort—is what brings desire back.
Why Libido Isn’t the Whole Story: What actually helps when sex starts to feel harder
When sex starts to feel harder, it’s easy to blame libido. But desire and arousal work differently—and understanding that difference can change everything.
When One Wants Sex and the Other Doesn’t
It can feel like the quietest kind of distance — not a fight, not a rupture, just two bodies missing each other’s timing. Here’s what’s really happening underneath.
How We Find Our Way Back
When the fight ends, love doesn’t disappear — it just finds a quieter language.