How Desire Becomes Conditional
Desire doesn’t disappear all at once. It narrows—becoming careful, watchful, and conditional. This piece explores what actually happens when sex stops feeling free, and how safety—not effort—is what brings desire back.
Why Libido Isn’t the Whole Story: What actually helps when sex starts to feel harder
When sex starts to feel harder, it’s easy to blame libido. But desire and arousal work differently—and understanding that difference can change everything.