Why Libido Isn’t the Whole Story: What actually helps when sex starts to feel harder
When sex starts to feel harder, it’s easy to blame libido. But desire and arousal work differently—and understanding that difference can change everything.
When One Wants Sex and the Other Doesn’t
It can feel like the quietest kind of distance — not a fight, not a rupture, just two bodies missing each other’s timing. Here’s what’s really happening underneath.
How We Find Our Way Back
When the fight ends, love doesn’t disappear — it just finds a quieter language.
The Body Revolts
When a partner shuts down in conflict, it’s not rejection — it’s the body trying to protect itself. This post unpacks why shutdown happens, why it gets misread, and how couples repair once safety comes back online.
The Email Was One Word. The Argument Was Not.
One word. One email. One rupture. How tiny moments become big fights — and how couples repair.